Asian Chicks (Or, With Six You Get a Yawn!)

All right, I haven’t been around as much as I should.  What can I say?  Dr Tim is in big demand.  (Or so my cat tells me…)

Kristina Wong.  If you do not know who she is, find out.  Kristina is an amazing performance artist who tells it the way she sees it.  Fearless.

Today, she released a series of six shorts on YouTube about Asian Women and how men seem to perceive them.  She is accompanied by (should-be) well known writers and directors reading from books about Asian women that were written by white men.  Check it out, this is eye-opening to say the least.  For my adult movie fans, perhaps you will notice appearances by Asa Akira.

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLPW9Ncg5SLWTCzHYPKPhc0TCADcdhzxo5&app=desktop

Dr Tim had some of those same misconceptions until he was 11 or 12 years old which was during the Vietnam Conflict.  My mother overheard something I said about Asians and swiftly corrected my misconceptions.  Forcefully and painfully.  After the rage passed, she taught me better.

Please note that while you laugh (as I certainly did) these books were written to be taken seriously.  That’s right, Asian women are just objects that can be characterized by gross generalizations that demean and dehumanize them.  While I chuckled during the videos, it was uncomfortable, because I knew that I was being called out for past behaviour.

 

Bottom line: We have to stop objectifying each other.  To misquote a book, “The only sin is to treat people like objects.”

 

 

I’m Alive!

WOW!

Such a year of changes and excitement.  Time to get back to it and do it until you are all satisfied.

Catch me in Burbank at ANME this weekend.  Sunday is the best day to find me.

In the words of a great philosopher, “I’m back, baby!”

Women or, I love you, stay healthy!

I’m baaack!

Today is February 3rd, or Wear Red Day promoting heart health for women.  Serious stuff!  Now you can skip my rambling and go to http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ByAudience/ForWomen/WomensHealthTopics/ucm117974.htm and check it out for yourself.

For your convenience, you can find the information in 18 different languages here: http://www.fda.gov/ForConsumers/ByAudience/ForWomen/FreePublications/ucm126287.htm

There are four basic tenets:

  1. Eat a heart healthy diet.  Basically low salt/sodium, limit trans fats and cut back on sugar.  Stuff we all know how to do, but rarely practice.  (Guilty!)
  2. Manage your health conditions.  If you have high cholesterol, blood pressure, diabetic problems.  Get on the wagon and take care of them.  These can lead to heart problems.  Take your medications and follow your doctor’s advice.
  3. Get the facts about aspirin.  Taking a daily aspirin for preventing heart attacks and strokes is not right for everyone.  So talk to your doctor.  That way you can dial in the appropriate dosage, etc.  And remember to remind them of any other medications you are taking.  I know your doctor should know, but we cannot remember everything all the time.
  4. Know the signs of a heart attack.  Men and women can have different symptoms, so be sure you go over the links I posted above.  Also, check out this video that Elizabeth Banks did a few years ago.  She had a heart attack in real life.  https://youtu.be/t7wmPWTnDbE

Fine.  That’s under your chest.  Now let’s go downstairs.  (I am great at foreplay!)

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease: An estimated 2.5 million women have an often symptomless infection of the urinary tract that can lead to infertility and lasting abdominal pain.  The infection can be cured however, if left untreated long enough, the physical damage may be permanent.  PID is a complication of a previous sexually transmitted disease or STD.  https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/66/wr/mm6603a3.htm

Yes, we are talking about everybody’s friends chlamydia and gonorrhea.  Around 1.5 million cases of chlamydia and 400,000 cases of gonorrhea were reported in 2015.  That’s reported, and we know that not everyone reports their health situations.  Here’s the thing: these diseases often do not show symptoms and can go undiagnosed and untreated.  Now if that leads to PID:

“Pelvic inflammatory disease symptoms may include persistent abdominal pain, fever, abnormal vaginal discharge, or pain or bleeding during sexual intercourse.  PID poses long-term hazards such as infertility, chronic pelvic pain and ectopic pregnancy. Ectopic pregnancies occur when an embryo implants in the fallopian tube instead of the uterus.

No single test can diagnose PID, so doctors often rely on symptom reporting. But PID often doesn’t cause symptoms. “That’s one of the scariest things because you may not know it’s even happening,” she said.”  https://medlineplus.gov/news/fullstory_163399.html

Your background doesn’t matter.  If you are sexually active, get tested every year or as often as your insurance will pay for it.  (Adult actors test every month!)  Because the more active you are with different partners, the bigger your risk.  Make sure that use condoms or other barrier protections.  It is a rough world out there.

So that was a very romantic and sexy return for Quantum Cogitation.  But ladies, take care of yourselves.  You cannot make a difference if you are not around.  Plus, I still think I have a shot with you!  Are you a beaver?  Cuz, Dam!

I will be back more often so please keep sending those cards, letters, photos and videos coming.

 

 

Movember

Hey true believers!

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Trying to raise some cash for men’s health.  Prostate cancer, testicular cancer and mental health.

This time, it’s personal.

Hi Everybody! (Hi Dr Tim!)

OK, so I am a bit late.  Spent way too much time and money at the Annual Newberry Library Book Fair.  (http://www.newberry.org/book-fair-blog)

So let’s catch up.  Dr Tim is now a free agent in the Sex Toy and Adult Entertainment world.  That means you will see things from many different companies featured on my blog.  (For transparency sake, no one is paying me or gifting me with anything yet to do my blog.  It is a labor of love…)

So, ANME Summer 2016.  I was able to attend the Adult Novelty Manufacturers’ Expo (http://www.anmefounders.com/) and had a wonderful time.  I saw lots of new toys, saw old friends and made some new ones as well.  Top that off with a free lunch and the show was nothing short of miraculous!

Here are some photo highlights:

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You  may recognize some of the people, but we have Gianna Michaels, Siouxsie Q, Marcelo, a wonderful lady, BUCK ANGEL(!), a picture of Kendra Lust and my dear friend Sunny!  Sorry, no pictures of GameLink’s Jeff Dillionaire and other notables.  It was quite the party.  Here are a few of the cool toys and stuff:

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WOW!  Doc Johnson and Kink went in together to do some very cool stuff.  You will see some of Dr Tim’s products (the Erase Spray will remove magic marker body writing quite easily), a model that shows the optimum areas for butt-paddling so as not to cause serious injury, massage candles, Motorhead and Motley crew vibrators in case you want to bang more than your heads, and app controlled sex toys that also play tunes and have unlock-able achievement levels.

So all in all, a rousing show.  Hopefully I will get a Kink fucking machine to test…

Has this Ever Happened to you?

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I’m Coming! (Back)

Yes True believers, I am returning.  Many life changes have happened to ‘Ol Dr Tim, but I am alive and sexually active in the big, bad city.

Someone get me a necktie and it had better be red!

Dream BIG! (or, been long-dicked and can’t get up)

Howdy-Ho everyone!

Did you hear the awesome news?  Sounds like all Doc Johnson dildos are going to turn Vac-U-Lock.  Yes, that means that you can strap-on just about any new DJ dildo!  Here, let me give you a couple of examples:

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Yes We Can!

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Dr. Tim in the Media (or, Look at me Ma! Top of the World!)

Have I been a busy, busy boy!  Not only have I not been blogging, but I have been getting into all kinds of media mischief.  Here are a few of my favorites:

Missy Martinez!  Yes, I got to do a shoot with the brilliant, funny, warm and wonderful Missy Martinez (http://missymartinez.com/ and star of Fucked Ra.  Pick it up at the store or online, it won’t disappoint.)  Here we are with our lab coats on.  We did take them off just a bit later…

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I also had the privilege to work with Kimberly Kane (kanearmy.com – what can I say about this lovely lady?) for this little video goodness.

http://munchies.vice.com/videos/sex-food-edible-intimates

And if that isn’t enough, I was interviewed about a typical day which was published on Kinkly.  (All the good sexy stuff was removed, something about the trampoline, velcro and six-pack of clowns didn’t make the cut.)

https://www.kinkly.com/2/12690/sex-toys/a-day-in-the-life-of-a-sex-toy-chemist

Now that Hanukkah is safely behind us and Christmas, Kwanzaa and the New Year are looming, I can get back to talking sex, science and just how good they feel together.  You know, my safe word has something to do with the holidays.  Everything stops when I yell “Leg Krampus!”

As you were…

 

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