15 Dec 2010
by Mystertim
in Anatomy, Couples Sexuality, Female, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Medical, Personal Lubricants, Safe Sex, Science, sexuality, Uncategorized
Tags: female sex organs, Female Sexuality, female stimulation, fetish, Kink, Male Sexuality, Medical Equipment, Science, sex, sexuality, women
How many of you are into medical play?
Yes, I have played a doctor behind the woodshed and have used the phrase “Hellooo Nurse!” on way too many occasions. But how about the use of sounds, Wartenburg wheels, TENS units, performed the Num-Num test and the like. A good pair of stirrups goes a long way.
Check this out: http://bcove.me/qhiroajk
Yes, someone did a study of what coitus looks like in an MRI machine. It is amazing. Blew my mind. The actual clip was assembled from all the pictures taken during the procedure and is in the last-minute of the clip. Check it out. I will never get those images out of my mind.
And let me know if you want to discuss the medical fetish. No need for an appointment. The Doctor will see you now.
10 Dec 2010
by Mystertim
in Anatomy, cosmetics, Couples Sexuality, Dildos, Fashion, Female, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Personal Lubricants, Physiology, Psychology, Safe Sex, Science, sex toys, sexuality, Strap-ons
Tags: anal sex, Attack of the Show, clitoris, cosmetics, Couples sex talk, dildo, emotion, fellatio, female sex organs, Female Sexuality, female stimulation, fetish, G4, Male Sexuality, orgasm, Personal Lubricants, Psychology, sex, sexuality, strap-on, vibrator
Today’s Early Morning Question: Dr Tim, what is your number one, mind-shattering, earth-moving major turn-on?
Since it was barely 6:30 this morning, my first response was, “Breakfast?” After all, isn’t that something a man yearns for every single day of his life?
My answer was deemed unsatisfactory. Imagine that. Now imagine Dr Tim imagining that. Now imagine Dr Tim imaging that while wearing a speedo and furry boa. (I’m in your head forever now…)
Turn-ons. The magic fetish that sends your libido into overdrive. Yes, a turn-on is considered a fetish. And although the word ‘fetish” has been co-opted by television and the movies to mean “hot babe in leather” it is a much more complex than that. (Do not stop sending me those pictures of hot babes in leather though. I’m writing a paper, yeah that’s it!) Even the media is beginning to loosen up. I was watching “Attack of the Show” recently and have been enjoying the WTF segment. They have shown America several interesting fetishes that may shock, amuse or bore you.
Lipstick fetish – the application of multiple layers of lip color. Sometimes garish, mostly elegant. This appears to be a more specific version of a make-up fetish stemming from young folks watch their Mother go through their make-up ritual every day. It truly is amazing to watch the transformation. The art, the precision, the glamour. Really, I could watch and watch unless we are late for our reservations.
Vacuum beds – where a person is put into a giant latex bag and all of the air is removed leaving the person immobilized and helpless. Now there is some hot sweaty fun. The two hosts took turns in the bag and their reactions were priceless. The fact that this was being performed by a hot babe in fetish gear did not hurt. It helped build the scene.
Ear Cleaning – this may have been a spoof, but how good does it feel to use that cotton-tipped stick in your ear? Uh-huh, thought so. I never thought about taking it further, but it looks like it works!
So a fetish can really be anything that gets you going. Shoes, stockings, army boots and kick to the nads, whatever. I have a lady friend that loves to clean house. It gets her warmed up and then she rides the vibration of the vacuum cleaner to climax. Hey, I don’t judge and my place gets a thorough cleaning to boot!
Whatever puts you in motion is fine. Just make sure that all the players are on board and nobody is made to do something they don’t want to do. (By force or guilt.) If your fetish concerns non-consenting partners, please get help. You may have some issues and that just isn’t healthy.
Oh, my major turn-on? I may be showing my age, but my biggest turn-on is intimacy. Yep, having that special someone who knows everything about you and sleeps with you anyway! It goes both ways and that is very exciting for me.
Have fun, play safe and keep those cards, letters, pictures and videos coming in!
02 Dec 2010
by Mystertim
in Anatomy, Couples Sexuality, Dildos, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Personal Lubricants, Safe Sex, Science, sex toys, sexuality, Strap-ons
Tags: anal sex, clitoris, Couples sex talk, dildo, emotion, fellatio, Female Sexuality, fetish, Male Sexuality, orgasm, Personal Lubricants, Psychology, sex, sexuality, strap-on
Be good my little children
For Christmas time is near.
Listen closely for Old Santa
And his sleigh with eight reindeer.
And take caution older kidlets
Treat all with loving care.
For you will never realize
When an elf is standing there.
And as for me, you’ll find me
Underneath the mistletoe
Waiting for a rendezvous
With the Girls from Deveraux
Do not laugh or spite me
Or call me a so-and-so
Either know my heart is full of love
Or I’m just an old mofo…
24 Nov 2010
by Mystertim
in Couples Sexuality, Dildos, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Personal Lubricants, Safe Sex, sex toys, sexuality, Strap-ons
Tags: anal sex, clitoris, Couples sex talk, dildo, emotion, fellatio, female sex organs, Female Sexuality, female stimulation, fetish, Male Sexuality, orgasm, Personal Lubricants, sex toys, sexuality, Spanksgiving, strap-on
Ah the holidays! The weather turns cool, the air has a certain tang and the circle of life heads towards the finish line. Well, at least in Los Angeles the air always has a certain flavor and growing up in snow country I am still confounded by California people who light their fireplaces when the temperature drops to a chilly 65 F.
However, cool weather send folks indoors. And what happens indoors? I mean, what could happen when you are snuggling under blankets, darkness looms at 5:00 PM and the light from the fireplace makes your partner look so enticing?
Good sex is what happens! Maybe even great sex!
And there are all sorts of fun games we can play on the holidays. Perhaps one of you could pretend to be the turkey about to get stuffed. I believe that you have to give the turkey a thorough rub-down with butter first, followed by a nice spanking, right? When the red timer pops up on the breast, you know it is ready! Mmm, gravy…
If the Native American Princess saved the Colonist, what reward did she require? They didn’t call him Lockjaw for nothing you know. Was an ear of corn the first strap-on? Why is it called a “tee-pee?” Perhaps all of your friends came over for an amazing “feast.” Did you invite the neighbors? Remember, there’s always room for Jello. And whipped cream.
Or maybe you could lie in front of the fire and see who’s corn pops first. The varieties are endless.
Hey, I don’t judge. I just want to hold the camcorder! So let your imagination run wild! Grab your partner(s), condoms, lots of lube/sex toys (Daddy needs to get paid!) and have a great time. Ol’ Dr. Tim wants you to have a joyful and fulfilling Holiday Season.
For Thanksgiving, I am thankful for family, good friends, open-minded friends, willing friends, warmth, caring, that I have food in my belly and a bed under my butt.
I am also thankful that Hanukkah starts in a week. That means we get to do it for eight crazy nights in a row!
12 Nov 2010
by Mystertim
in Couples Sexuality, Dildos, Female, Female Sexuality, Personal Lubricants, Physiology, Safe Sex, sex toys, sexuality, Strap-ons, Uncategorized
Tags: anal sex, clitoris, Couples sex talk, dildo, fellatio, female sex organs, female stimulation, fetish, orgasm, Personal Lubricants, sex, sex toys, sexuality, strap-on, Veterans, women
Happy Veterans’ Day! Yes, I know I am a day late. But I have a really good excuse.
Since all of these fine folks have done their bit, I thought that I should do their bit too. I mean, after all they have been or are still in service to this great country of ours the US of A!
So I dedicated all of yesterday to servicing our service people. That’s right, Good Old Dr Tim was tending to the “special” needs of any and all females that served in our armed forces. And boy, is my tongue tired!
But they helped keep us the Land of the Free, so they are especially deserving of a special thank you.
How about you? Did you Service the Service yesterday? You should!
I’m just saying…
12 Mar 2010
by Mystertim
in Anatomy, Couples Sexuality, Dildos, Female, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Personal Lubricants, Psychology, sex toys, Strap-ons
Tags: bisexual, closet, Female Sexuality, fetish, gay, Jim Morrison, lifestyle, Male Sexuality, Psychology, sexuality, stimulation, The Doors, trans, tush
Doors.
Why doors? I am sitting at my desk on a Friday afternoon and have been watching the crew install a new door on my lab. They tore out the old swollen door, reamed out the opening and are installing a brand new, high-security door. And they keep singing the Mickey Mouse theme song. If only this were Wednesday, then anything could happen!
So what do doors have to do with sex and sexuality?
Well, thanks to Jim Morrison, my college escapades were legendary! Some day I will write a book that scandalizes future generations. But those weren’t The Doors I was going to discuss. Doors are like smiles. There are doors that make you happy, there are doors that make you blue. Ponder that for a moment. Doors go both ways. Which doors are you happy to open? Your bedroom door? Her/His/Their door?
What about the door to your favorite restaurant or your favorite porn shop? (Excuse me, Lifestyle Sexuality Empowerment Facility, where you can find many instruments of self-exploration and joy by Doc Johnson!) Is it the door or what is behind it? Or the moment of “What if?” as you reach for the knob?
My vote is for the “What if?” moment. And that my friend is a totally different kind of door. It is the one you constructed in your mind. The part that excites you because you think you know what is on the other side, but you don’t know how the experience will go down.
As I mentioned, doors go both ways. They let things out or they can keep things in. The Dark Side of the Door. All of us have something locked away in our mental closet that brings us pain. Or prevents us from ever really enjoying our life. Simple choice, hard decision. Some things should remain locked away. Acknowledged, but firmly behind bars.
But if it SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) rip that door off its hinges! If you are gay, be gay. If you are straight, be straight. If you are trans, make the move. If you are bisexual, you just doubled your chance for a date this weekend! (Apologies to Woody Allen.)
Me? Well, I’m a tush guy. As attributed to Burt Reynolds, “If what’s behind don’t catch my eye, what’s up front don’t affect my fly.” There’s other stuff, sure. But that is between my partners and me. Applications are cheerfully accepted.
So live a little, be nice to yourself and play safe. We’ll talk more later.
(And to those of you who were expecting a post about backdoor/anal sex, maybe on Wednesday…)
11 Dec 2009
by Mystertim
in Anatomy, cosmetics, Couples Sexuality, Female Sexuality, Male Sexuality, Physiology, Psychology, Science, sexuality
Tags: fetish, fragrance, leather, Psychology, scent memory, sense memory, sex, Weizmann Institute
Scent memory. Ever heard of it?
Well, if you are an actor, you are probably familiar with sense memory. That is where you tap into your inner self and pull up a special memory to recreate how you felt. And scene…
Scent memory is a part of that and so much more. In fact, the sense of smell is very important to sex. Possibly the second most important facet! And yes, I do believe it ties into fetishes as well.
There is a new study from the Weizmann Institute of Science led by graduate student Yaara Yeshurun. The research appeared in: Current Biology, DOI: 10.1016/j.cub.2009.09.066. It states, basically, that the first association with a smell gets etched into the memory. And based on follow-up experiments, that association cannot seem to be erased. In fact, it seems to become a mental reference point.
I feel that it may be deeper than that and associations could change, the brain can be re-programmed, but additional stimuli would be needed to accomplish it. Let me over-simplify…
For example, if you came from a home where Italian food was prevalent, you may associate the scent of lasagna with whatever your home atmosphere was, either warm and fuzzy or cold and argumentative. However, if your partner played footsie with you to completion under the table at an Italian restaurant, you may now forever associate the scent of lasagna with foot-assisted orgasm.
This is where I feel fetish and smell meet. Leather folks seem to really, really love the smell of leather. Is that due to the amazing sex? Did their first sexual experience have them bent over a saddle? Maybe the back seat of a ’65 Mustang? Who knows? But the scent of leather takes them to a special place.
So if your significant other wears makeup, when you kiss them does it intensify the feelings and lead to arousal? Perhaps the scent of the makeup takes you back to that first encounter when the smell of her makeup and the taste of her lipstick are so fresh you can still experience them? Maybe your first encounter was in the woods, or in a rest stop bathroom, or an adult bookstore. All of those places have certain scents that would arouse excitement in you. I have a friend that can’t perform unless he smells lavender since his first series of encounters took place in the home of his girlfriend’s grandmother.
Another study found that a scent that sparked arousal in virtually all of the men they tested was the smell of fresh-baked cinnamon rolls. Go figure. They make my mouth water, maybe my stomach will growl, but that is about it for me. Have hot chocolate brewing when your lady friend comes over and see where that leads. Maybe a hint of peppermint will turn up the heat. Does apple pie fresh from the oven put a sparkle in your eye? Cinnamon is apparently very sexy!
What scents do you use around the house or on your body. Why did you choose those particular fragrances? Learning about your fragrance preferences will tell someone a lot about you. And they do! A savvy partner can learn more about you by observing your home than by talking to you. If you paid attention, you would know yourself well-enough to drop most of your insecurities.
Are you aware that behavior is influenced by aroma? Stores, schools, prisons and workplaces have experimented with scent as a means to motivate, pacify, urge and focus. You may have not noticed the scent, but it was there. It is a very sneaky world. If your partner needs a special favor from you, do they cook your favorite meal or wear that special perfume? Yep. Thought so.
Women understand the power of fragrance. Do you?
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